Bobcat,
All strength to you. Make your own decisions, but if I may be so bold to make a suggestion: treat and analyse the Bible as you would any piece of literature.
It did not fall out of the sky like a magic pudding. Each piece, subsequent editing, amendments, and the canonisation process did not exist in a vacuum. These processes took place within their respective cultures.
So many divergent cultures exist today, and how different were their cultures from each of ours. We must never fall into the trap of impressing our culture on to theirs. They were not writing to us.
Doug